distance

If there's one thing I've learned from my trip this weekend it's that it never was about the distance.. In any relationship, honesty pays more than anything.. honesty and an open communication...TRUST,, Don't hold anything back, no matter how painful things are getting, you should tell each other every thing because holding something, anything no matter how small will eventually get between you and you will not know what's wrong.. You get hurt and you get distant without knowing why and it will complicate things because you can't tell him why.. It's not putting yourself in the open and making yourself vulnerable, it's being able to say you tried. There'e no point in entering relationship when you are more guarded than a prisoner because you may not be allowing yourself to hurt, you should also realize you are not allowing yourself to be fully loved and to fully love..You might as well not enter a relationship at all because you are just fooling yourself..Half full or half empty is still just that..half.. You can be in each other's company every minute of everyday and still be the most distant couple just because you don't talk and he doesn't know the important things about you just as you don't know the important things even the small details.. Because when your relationship depends on instant messages and phone calls, love will not be enough.. Love is when you look forward to seeing him and feeling him close. Trust is allowing yourself to feel the pain of having to be apart but knowing that the next phone call or the next message is no different than seeing him tell you about his day, how he smiles when he's excited or frowns when he's tired or that you know when he says he's just sitting alone thinking of you because you're that connected, you can describe where he is just as he can because you trust in what he tells you and you know that he feels exactly the same..